Comments on: Your Presence Means You Have A Fighting Opportunity

By: Armen

Armen — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:11:40 +0000

Hi Jeanette.

It is certainly a circle of cycling circles. We have to not let it become a habit. The minute you see something bad become a habit, crush it right there.

Interesting about making the circle smaller. I hadn’t thought of it like that.

By: Armen

Armen — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:53:29 +0000

Hi Lana.

This is true. It is like water in a cup that leaks out through a hole at the bottom of the cup.

We have to watch for it.

Thanks for the support.

By: Jeanette Bolvary

Jeanette Bolvary — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 19:36:22 +0000

I like to look at it like a circle. When disappointment strikes, you need to complete your circle before you can continue on. People all have different size circles and the idea is to work on making your own circle as small as possible. Of course you can go on and on about what needs to happen inside your circle for you to finish with closure.

By: Lana - DreamFollowers Blog

Lana - DreamFollowers Blog — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 21:25:14 +0000

I think lots of people are guilty of letting time slip away, I am not an exception. And you are right we should view that as real dissapointment. Great tips Armen, as usual!

By: Armen

Armen — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:37:38 +0000

Hey Anthony.

I appreciate the honesty, and the same is true for me, many times. The value of time takes recognition to see. Good call.

By: Armen

Armen — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:36:30 +0000

Hi Sibyl.

Thanks about the post. We can’t forget about it not being 100% all the time. Sometimes we think it is 100% all the time, and forget about the rest, and then it comes back and hits us. As long as we keep that in our mind, it can’t hit us hard.

Thanks about the flowchart. Good to hear from you.

By: Anthony Feint

Anthony Feint — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 13:44:39 +0000

im completely guilty of letting time slip away. Great post!

By: alternaview - Sibyl

alternaview - Sibyl — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 02:54:23 +0000

This is a good post and an important topic. We all need to figure out those ways to successfully manage through those challenging times because the reality is that life is just not perfect 100% of the time. We are going to encounter those periods when things are not flowing as easily as we would like or falling into place the way we desired. The key is working through those periods in the best manner we can and preserving a good frame of mind. The flowchart is good and so are the pointers. Thanks for sharing them.

By: Armen

Armen — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 01:53:07 +0000

Hey Steven.

Thanks for that about both.

I like what you have presented here as the other part of the issue, and I will go ahead and handle that response in a follow-up article. It’s good that you brought that up because I have fitting material for that.

Thank you for asking the question, which then leads to my next article(or possibly next after next.)

By: Steven

Steven — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 01:41:24 +0000

Hi Armen,

nicely done on the post and the diagram, it is a very useful resource of reminder to those who feel down consistently.

I agree with what you say, that springing back into action and actually getting into solving the problem will ultimately give a positive result.

But that is the main problem here, many people who are consistently down are the people who have basically stopped taking actions towards solving their problems. Meaning that they lack any motivations to improve their lives simply because of what they’ve experienced in the past.

What would you say to them to give them the motivation to take actions in the first place?

Steven